With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of our beloved mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, Dixie Joan Stoneking Ruhnke, who peacefully entered eternal rest on February 23, 2025, at the age of 82.
Born on November 6, 1942, in Trenton, Missouri, to Mack and Pebble Stoneking, Dixie spent her early years in Humphries, Missouri, where she attended school, played basketball and was chosen as the band’s majorette. She later moved to St. Joseph, Missouri, before eventually settling in Kansas City, where she built a life filled with love, adventure and cherished memories.
A devoted believer in Christ, Dixie found strength in her faith and was a longtime member of Saint Paul Lutheran Church. She lived a life full of curiosity and adventure, loving to travel and taking many trips with her children, grandchildren, sister, brother-in-law and nieces, creating memories that will be forever cherished.
Among her many roles in life, none were more treasured than being "Nanny" to her five grandchildren and two great-grandsons. She adored them immensely, finding joy in their laughter and growth. Family was at the heart of everything she did, and she was a source of unwavering love, warmth and wisdom.
Dixie was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Henry Edward Ruhnke Sr., her son Henry (Heindrick) Edward Ruhnke Jr., her older sister Betty Stoneking Smith and her infant brother James Owen Stoneking. She is survived by her devoted children, Joanna Ruhnke Dixon (Jason) and Brian Ruhnke; her grandchildren, Drew Dixon (Amber), Ashlyn Dixon, Blake Dixon, Alexa Dixon, and Amara Ruhnke; and her cherished great-grandsons, Graham Dixon and Elliot Dixon. She also leaves behind her loving sister, Mary Stoneking Glidewell (Dean), as well as many nieces, nephews and dear friends who will miss her deeply.
She enjoyed her morning coffee, staying informed with the latest news, and sharing a special bond with the beloved cats and dogs she had over the years. Dixie also had a passion for flowers and took great joy in planting and nurturing them. Her career spanned many years in banking and at Dillard’s, and she was also a devoted homemaker, caring for her family with dedication and love.
Dixie’s kindness, strength, and quick wit left an indelible mark on all who knew her. Though our hearts are heavy with loss, we find comfort in knowing she is reunited with those she dearly missed.
Dixie’s love and light will forever remain in our hearts.
Private Graveside Farewell Services and Inurnment, Memorial Park Cemetery.
