Nathan Wayne Bigelow, born on August 22, 1979, in St. Joseph, Missouri, peacefully departed this world on October 25, 2023, in the comfort of his home in St. Joseph. He was 44 years old.
Nathan is survived by a loving and devoted family, including his cherished mother, Barbara (Nichols) Bigelow, and his caring father, Wayne Bigelow (Jeannie Scott). Nathan's memory lives on through his four beloved daughters, Lanie Colleen (Hochenauer) (21), Annalynn Elizabeth (10), Katherine Norah (7), and Addison James (5); step-brothers Bill and Walter; step-sisters Kelley and Christina; cousins Brian, Chrissy, Anthony, and Nicholas; "The Cousins" Angel, Bobbie Jo, Catherine, Victoria, and Ashley; his best friend Bacon Bigelow, and especially his significant other, Tessa Lund. He is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, and countless cousins who held a special place in their hearts for him. His many friends and neighbors, who became like family to him, will forever remember his kindness and camaraderie. (A special thank you to Mark and Zara for your kindness and spiritual support for Nathan and the family during this difficult time.)
Nathan served as an unofficial auditor for the St. Joseph School District, where he dedicated his efforts to making a positive impact on the education of the local community. Nathan attended Bishop LeBlond, Central, Benton, and Lafayette High Schools, eventually earning his GED. His tenacity and commitment to his education were qualities that inspired those around him.
Nathan started his professional career in the Restaurant Industry. He worked in/managed many restaurants in the area, most notably, Applebees, Bandannas, CiCi's Pizza, Houlihan's, and 54th Street. Many in the area also knew Nathan as the friendly face of the local FedEx delivery service. He was a dedicated courier who went above and beyond to ensure that packages reached their destinations, even braving the elements, as evidenced by his memorable appearance on the cover page of the Kansas City Star, pushing through a mountain of snow to ensure Christmas packages were delivered. Rumor has it that he also made a memorable appearance as the FedEx man (with Opie) during St. Joseph's Dancing with the Stars, adding an element of joy and laughter to the community.
Nathan's passing leaves a void in the hearts of those who knew him. His memory will forever be cherished by family, friends, and neighbors who were touched by his warmth, dedication, and sense of humor. We will remember him for his love of family, his commitment to his community, and his ability to bring joy to those around him.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that friends and family write down their favorite memories, collect pictures/videos of Nathan, and send them to the family or funeral home at [email protected]. A memory book will be created for his daughters to reflect and remember the life of Nathan "Bruce" Wayne Bigelow.
The family will receive friends 1:00 PM - 3:00 PM Sunday, October 29th at Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel.
