Robert “Bob” Patton passed away unexpectedly on August 26, 2025, surrounded by his loving family.
Bob was a man whose life was defined by love, generosity, and a steadfast commitment to those he cared about. Known affectionately as Bob, Good Ol’ Bob, Stanley, Bobbie, Daddy Don’t, Papa Bear, or Robert (if in trouble), he lived with humor and heart. Bob believed a person’s word was their bond. He was someone you could always count on, a man who worked hard, loved deeply, and showed affection through his trademark teasing smile and twinkle in his squinty eyes.
He shared 57 wonderful years with his late wife, Helen, and together they built a family grounded in unconditional love. Their years together were filled with joy, partnership, and deep faith. Bob was blessed to spend the last eight years with his partner, Loretta McCray. Together they enjoyed traveling, cheering on the Chiefs and the Mustangs, and spending time with family and friends.
Bob found joy in the simple things—morning coffee with friends, woodworking, afternoons on the golf course, walks hand in hand with Loretta, or long drives pointing out plants and trees along the roadside to his grandchildren. He loved celebrating the accomplishments of his children and grandchildren and was always present to support them in their activities. Whether offering guidance, teaching the value of hard work, or simply showing up with encouragement, Bob’s family knew his love and pride ran deep.
He is survived by his partner, Loretta McCray; daughters Lynn Wilson (Gerry) and Kathy Patton (Todd Ward); grandchildren Zach Wilson (Rachael), Alix Cronin(Jarret), and Gaige Wilson (Emma); and great-grandchildren Carter, Mavry, Lincoln, and Lucas.
Visitation will be held on September 2 from 4:30–5:30 p.m., followed by a service at5:30 p.m. at Heaton-Bowman-Smith-Sidenfaden Chapel at 3609 Frederick Blvd. St. Joseph, MO.
Memorial contributions may be made to Camp Haven (summer camp for children ages 8-12 who have lost a loved one) St. Joseph Habitat for Humanity or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
